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Aug. 30 2009 - 10:00 am | 8 views | 0 recommendations | 0 comments

Ted Kennedy, Jr.’s Moving Tribute To His Dad

During yesterday’s memorial service for his late father, Senator Edward M. (Ted) Kennedy, his son, Ted Jr., delivered a heartfelt and touching tribute to his dad.

Kennedy, Jr. recounted a special moment, recalling his father’s support during his bout with bone cancer as a child:

But today I’m simply compelled to remember Ted Kennedy as my father and my best friend. When I was 12 years old I was diagnosed with bone cancer and a few months after I lost my leg, there was a heavy snowfall over my childhood home outside of Washington D.C. My father went to the garage to get the old Flexible Flyer and asked me if I wanted to go sledding down the steep driveway. And I was trying to get used to my new artificial leg and the hill was covered with ice and snow and it wasn’t easy for me to walk. And the hill was very slick and as I struggled to walk, I slipped and I fell on the ice and I started to cry and I said “I can’t do this.” I said, “I’ll never be able to climb that hill.” And he lifted me in his strong, gentle arms and said something I’ll never forget. He said “I know you’ll do it, there is nothing you can’t do. We’re going to climb that hill together, even if it takes us all day.”

Sure enough, he held me around my waist and we slowly made it to the top, and, you know, at age 12 losing a leg pretty much seems like the end of the world, but as I climbed onto his back and we flew down the hill that day I knew he was right. I knew I was going to be OK. You see, my father taught me that even our most profound losses are survivable and it is what we do with that loss, our ability to transform it into a positive event, that is one of my father’s greatest lessons. He taught me that nothing is impossible.

While the Senator led a rich, accomplished and complicated life, there wasn’t anything complicated about the love that he had for his children, and judging by the sentiments expressed yesterday, the love that they had for him.


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